The problem with using a switch is that the motor suddenly goes from stop to full speed. The paddles in some bow-thrusters are not very well secured to the motor spindle and we have seen several where they have detached because of this shock, usually rendering the thruster not repairable or even replaceable.
If you want a decent ESC which will run at equal speeds in each direction and won't involve wondering about disconnecting the BEC then I suggest ACTion P79 (10A) or P81(5A).
DM