It is still a sad fact Colin that more people have been killed by lifeboats than saved by them.
Ashley, the story was we had a medical emergency in the Meddy in the middle of the night in around the early eighties, so put out an SOS. It was answered by a Russian trawler. Strange it seemed to have an awful lot of antenna for a simple trawler, but I digress. Anyway we decided to drop our boat and go and pick up the doctor from the trawler. (A trawler with a doctor!) Anyway the volunteers were myself on the engine and the second mate on the helm, with a couple of ABs for crew. The deck department slowed the ship down and turned to port to give the boat a lee. When we got as far as the water the flat calm appearance from the main deck took on the look of a substantial swell. What we also didn't realise was that the ship still had around half a knot of way on her. The swell slapped the bottom of the boat just as the lads were getting ready to loose the falls with the result that the forward fall released but the aft fall remained tensioned and would not free. Consequently we remained held to the ship by the aft fall, as the boat rose and fell quite dramatically, and turned around because the ship was actually dragging us by the aft fall. As the lads on deck let out more wire we simply fell further aft as there was nothing we could do to get the tension off the fall. How we stayed upright I will never know. Eventually the ship stopped, we released the aft fall and we went across to pick up the doctor, suitably chaperoned by a commissar! When we got back they were very reluctant to want to get onto the pilot ladder at the crest of a swell so informed us, in very broken English, that they would come up with the boat. Getting the boat back on the falls was a nightmare with the boat bouncing up and down and the falls swinging around like pendulums.
Sadly after all that the poor lad died and we had to go through the whole thing again to take the doctor and his friend back to the trawler. Ever since then I have thought very frequently "What would it be like in the middle of the North Atlantic?" and consequently have always been convinced of the value of the expression "The ship is the best lifeboat".