For my part, when returning to the hobby in 2013 after a +/- 30 year hiatus, I did indeed find the learning curve a tad on the steep side; however, most of the new stuff was easy enough to figure out with a bit of reading (which of course as already remarked is usually only a few on-line searches away).
The one thing that did and still does bother me is that essentially all modern r/c equipment beyond the most basic sets is tailor made for models that take to the sky, and this is where I feel that the analogy with modern cars does break down a bit.
Yes. Modern cars come with a carload (ha!) of bells, whistles, horns and tooters, many of which may be surplus to requirement for a good number of drivers. However, all those things are there to address issues directly related to driving or being in a car. They may do this well or less so. They may be reliable or not. They may be (too) expensive to buy or maintain. But at least they are to the purpose in hand.
Multi-channel 2.4 GHz, computerized r/c, on the other hand, also comes with numerous bells, whistles, etc., but these have not in any way been designed with model boating requirements in mind. On the contrary, technological advances have been harnessed to solve problems and automate handling for people why fly plane and helicopter models. I have never been one of those people. Please don't get me wrong: I do not for moment mean to disparage them or their hobby. It is just that it was never my hobby, and so what I don't know about flaps and ailerons and air speeds and tail rotors and other thingummies would probably fill quite a few volumes.
Alas, flaps & co. do fill other volumes to the bursting point, namely the manuals and instructions for the r/c sets one has to buy if one wishes to enjoy the advantages of 2.4 GHz, and have a channel count higher than four.
Yes, useful information can be gleaned from said manuals, if one is prepared to suffer a subsequent minor headache, but it is much harder than it would have been, had there also been a chapter in there headed "So, You Want To Use This Set In A Boat, Do You?"
By the way: there might just be a market for a good booklet on that subject, if someone with a better understanding than mine were to feel up to writing one … 
The worst bit for me, however, is that it makes it much harder to know just which set to buy! All the brochures and websites will again go on and on about flaps and ailerons and tail rotors and how to mix these to the equivalent of six parts gin to one part vermouth … but they will never tell me if set ABC-47 will do me better as a model boater than will set ZYX-74. Grrr.
End of gripe. Other than that, I'm on the whole delighted with what technological progress has done for our hobby (and also with most of the gadgetry in my car) 
Mattias