Posted by Paul T on 07/04/2016 17:04:03:
.. even though it is slightly out of focus you can see that the motor and shaft are out of alignment
It is hard to see, but the shaft might be displaced laterally. Are both those shafts the same size, such as 3mm? If so, a length of 3mm id brass will slip over both and provide a nice stiff reference position to hold the motor in.
My view is that the silicone connector must be inadequate to transmit the maximum torque, because if it were adequate it would not have broken. You do not want a coupler breaking in mid-pond, so you need a stronger one. A stiffer tube will be stronger, and will help to hold the motor in the correct position.
If your shafts are the right size, I would go for a more solid universal joint, like the one I linked to. That will lock firmly onto the shafts and force the motor shaft to be positioned along the axis of the prop-shaft.
With a firm connector of this kind, you can try running the motor on low power when it is loosely secured, and move it around to the position where vibration is least, and shaft speed is greatest. This will be the ideal motor position, and you can then arrange a mount to hold it at this angle.