Posted by Peter Fitness on 20/07/2016 23:55:45:
As a moderator on Mayhem I'm curious as to why DG left "on account of the moderation". I know that we have had some unpleasantness there in the past, but my personal feeling is that Mayhem is a much better forum since certain trouble makers were banned….
Mayhem had fora which were specific to aspects of Model Boats, and other more general fora. In the former, politeness is always required – in the latter things might get more 'robust'.
I have no difficulty at all with robust discussion and debate. In fact, I enjoy it. It's good to be corrected when you are wrong, and to have to defend your ideas against a clever and well-informed opponent. I'm even happier when things descend to personal insults – that's an infallible sign that you have won your point, and besides, sometimes the insults are quite witty. I might want to use them myself sometime! Boring, childish insults are water off a duck's back – if an opponent wants to broadcast the fact that he (and it usually is a he)'s lost, then be my guest. So I'm generally unhappy if a moderator steps in to block such a post – though I understand that a stream of pointless insults becomes boring quite rapidly….
What I don't like is political correctness, and instances where a moderator deletes political opinion which does not coincide with his own, or feels that it will annoy someone, even though it breaches no stated moderation guidelines. The Mayhem board is Martins – it is a fantastic resource and ambassador for UK Model Boating generally, he has a perfect right to run it in any way he wants, and my rights are limited to leaving it if I do not agree with some aspects of the way it is run – which I duly did.
'Model Boats', by contrast, is a commercial site with, as far as I know, no general discussion encouraged. When the administrators feel that any conversation is likely to cause problems for them they moderate it, but also take the trouble to tell the protagonists why. I approve of that approach, and have had no disagreement with them over it – yet!