Hi Stephen, a few things there. Firstly the props, start with 35 mm 3 blade, they're usually the best match for 385 motors. You can buy a few different size plastic ones to experiment with if you want to, they're cheap and effective.
Re the speed controller, why not start out with one, if the turning circle isn't what you want then you can spend more one a twin ESC and mixer.
Lastly the rudder, you don't say what you difficulty is, but hear is my and many other peoples way of doing them.
Find some rod and tube to make the assembly, slot one end of the rod about 5 mm to take a piece of brass sheet.
The brass sheet can be any old off cut, say about 1 x 2 cm, solder it into the slot.
Next cut 2 pieces of plasticard in the shape of the finished rudder, cut a tiny slot where the post will be.
Put the plastic in very hot water to soften them, then clamp them around the metal bits until they harden.
When dry use epoxy to join them and clamp again. You can do some final shaping with sandpaper when its all set.
It takes me about an hour to make a rudder, costs peanuts and is easy to change the design if I want to.
Chas