Bob, as a lifetime professional modelmaker, I know how you feel. My younger grandson, who showed some interest a few years ago now has none at all, because he can sit and play tedious killing games on a pootah box. If he has no access to that he watches some older nerd's videos of playing kil,ling games on his 'phone. That's it, that's what he's interested in.
My interests, like yours seem to be of a minority sort. I like classic speedboats. I don't do military at all, but I do find some merchant ships attractive and your work, from a modelmaking point of view is an eye opener. Miniatures have always fascinated me. Those ladders are something special! It ain't the soldered joints that impress me. I can do them, it's drilling all those holes! For a professional, I'm crap at drilling holes, always have been! That's why I've never made a wire wheel for a car model!
More often than not my response to forums, clubs, etc. is, in the end, "Oh well, F*** 'em". You keep doing it because it's what blows your frock up. The rest? Their loss that they never developed your levels of skill.
And that one in the picture above? That's a potentially very pretty little ship. Please do finish it in your usual style.
I'm just surprised nobody has yet asked how you make those HUGE pens that sit next to your models<G>
Cheers,
Martin