Hi Toby, you asked about the motor and shaft. As long as the shaft is long enough to get the propeller in the right place and at a gentle angle to get the motor to align with it, it will be fine.
As to the motor, it's an old joke on here that if you ask 5 people about the best motor for a model, you'll end up with a choice of 5.!
I noticed on the model boat bits web page, the 280 motor they sell is rated at 12 to 24 volts. The 280 designation just refers to the motor length, and many motors are made to different voltage ranges. The 280 motors I've used in the past were rated to 6 volts, which would work in the model, but not ideal as it would be running at the top of it's range. My personal choice would be a 385 motor, they're rated 6 to 15 volts, and are quite touquey so will drive a decent propeller. You'll only need to use 6 volts to make that model go well.
With that motor, a 30mm or 35 mm propeller will be fine, check for sufficient clearance at the stern. As to a coupling, you can buy a huco or similar one, but with low powered models like this, I just use a piece of neoprene tubing, such as is sold for model fuel tubing or fish tank pumps. It's cheap, forgiving in the alignment, and lasts forever. My 30 inch Corvette has had the same piece in for 20 + years and is still fine.
I hope that helps a bit.
Chas