No worries, Glen — we've all been there 
For fixing metal to plastic, I would usually try either CA (cyano acrylate, aka super glue) glue or epoxy.
There are a number of brands of such glues. I usually use Zap CA glues and frequently also Zap epoxies (**LINK**). They are fairly easy to find, both in hobby stores and online. There are also other brands available that I'm sure are just as good, its just that I haven't tried them so I cannot compare.
I also adore the Zap Flexi-tips (**LINK**, second item on the page) — they're just perfect for applying very small quantities of glue with sufficient precision. Again, I have only ever tried them on Zap bottles, but they should fit most other brands, too. I usually get mine from Fast Lad Performance in Bansley (**LINK**).
I would also say that you need at least two different CA glues: one thick and one thin. The thick you use when the glue needs to applied to the surface before the peices are joined — it has a grab time of somewhere beteeen 30 and 60 seconds, so you need to be reasonably nimble, but you do have a short moment to actually join your pieces. The thin one grabs more or less instantly, and should basically only be used with capillary action, i.e. when you are able to hold the two pieces together in exactly the right position, with the joint to be glued perectly flush. If you then apply a small drop of thin CA to the edge of the joint, it will be pulled into the joint by capillary action, and you will at the same time aquire an uncle called Robert.
With epoxies, I usually prefer mix-your-own bottle sets because I find them much more economical than the syringes sold at DIY stores. I always mix epoxies by weight, using a set of precision scales (eaxct to the nearest 0,1 gram), both to ensure an even mix of base and hardener and to make sure that one bottle does not run out much sooner than the other. Such scales (here are some; the one I have is the M2000: **LINK**) are also perfect for mixing small quantities of paint, as you can be sure that you always get exactly the same amounts of each ingredient colour. However, if one does not want or feel the need for such an investment, one can always mix epoxy just by sight, and it will usually be good enough.
As always, if you are not familiar with the behaviour or properties of a glue that's new to you, try it out first on some scrap material before you apply it to your model!
Mattias
Edited By Banjoman on 10/03/2017 14:22:05