Hi Jonathan, I'm relieved that you're taking all the advice in a good way. Re changing the motor, if you follow Dave's advice and consider an out runner. (I would) the cooling coils can't be used, as the outer body revolves. You can get or make water cooled mounts but I can't see why it would be needed. Subject to other peoples input, you could just make some blanking plugs or for now just connect the input directly to the output.
Re the coupling, I doubt your shop will have the one Dave mentioned, so give the company (shg) a ring, they are excellent.
Chas