Hi IM,
The motor sizing problem is probably even bigger than you think. Even if you know the power and torque of the motor, and that is relatively easy to find or work out, its pretty well impossible to find any information on how much power and torque it takes to drive a given propeller and how much thrust you will get as a result.
As Ashley says, give the forum an idea of the size and type of your model and someone will probably be able to advise you. I have built up a spreadsheet of all my model's performance, some with several different batteries, motors and propellers. If you would like a copy, send me a PM with your email address and I will email a copy to you. It might not help, but it covers a fair cross section of models and should give you a pointer to what will work.
Gareth